Maybe you guys are wondering why most relationship failed right? Well, one of the reasons is jealousy. What is jealousy? It is a negative feeling, angry thoughts, and behaviors of insecurity,
fear, and anxiety that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival, or when another person is perceived to have some type of advantage. It could destroy a relationship. Why do we sometime feel jealous of something? Due to poor self esteem; desire for revenge when your partner did something wrong before you also do exactly what he/she did just to get even or for him to feel exactly how much youve been hurt ; fear of abandonment ; fear of loss of love when you feel that theres no connection with you guys anymore; fear
f being dishonored in the relationship when you feel that your partnet disrespect you by showing a not so good gestures or deeds and lastly due to unresolved issues from past relationships a feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, or pain. In my case i always get jealous when somebody tries to get the attention of my special someone. I should say that it can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing. I think that i am doomed to live with it forever. Sometimes i feel like being betrayed when he kept something from me, "whitelies" is what they call it. When he
knows that i might get angry of s0mething he wont let me know it unless i find it out, bottomline is, we all hate LIES! Reality is that we know we can stop jealousy. How? by trusting your partner and let him speak for himself and it would always be better for us to listen and not to talk when your partner is trying to explain the real side of the story. It would be much appreciated when you tell things straight, being true to what you feel, what happened even that will make you feel angry. I appreciate people who's honest enough to admit their mistakes. Admitting things that may cause misunderstanding would lessen the burden. If something went
wrong or by accident or you did something you dont wanna do, might as well let the person involve aware of it so she/he would understand and have all the information needed to realize things that you didnt do it on purpose, this will prevent you guys from arguing. Preventing you
partner to ask/investigate things that could make it worse. They say prevention is always better than cure. We cant just give out trust, your partner shoud earn it. By letting us know and feel
that they are sincere and true to what they feel and say. Trust is very important in a relationship. It could get your life back and enjoy the healthy relationships you deserve. By rebuilding trust, and live a happier life. No worries. Just trust yourself as well.. ÜÜÜ
fear, and anxiety that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival, or when another person is perceived to have some type of advantage. It could destroy a relationship. Why do we sometime feel jealous of something? Due to poor self esteem; desire for revenge when your partner did something wrong before you also do exactly what he/she did just to get even or for him to feel exactly how much youve been hurt ; fear of abandonment ; fear of loss of love when you feel that theres no connection with you guys anymore; fear
f being dishonored in the relationship when you feel that your partnet disrespect you by showing a not so good gestures or deeds and lastly due to unresolved issues from past relationships a feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, or pain. In my case i always get jealous when somebody tries to get the attention of my special someone. I should say that it can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing. I think that i am doomed to live with it forever. Sometimes i feel like being betrayed when he kept something from me, "whitelies" is what they call it. When he
knows that i might get angry of s0mething he wont let me know it unless i find it out, bottomline is, we all hate LIES! Reality is that we know we can stop jealousy. How? by trusting your partner and let him speak for himself and it would always be better for us to listen and not to talk when your partner is trying to explain the real side of the story. It would be much appreciated when you tell things straight, being true to what you feel, what happened even that will make you feel angry. I appreciate people who's honest enough to admit their mistakes. Admitting things that may cause misunderstanding would lessen the burden. If something went
wrong or by accident or you did something you dont wanna do, might as well let the person involve aware of it so she/he would understand and have all the information needed to realize things that you didnt do it on purpose, this will prevent you guys from arguing. Preventing you
partner to ask/investigate things that could make it worse. They say prevention is always better than cure. We cant just give out trust, your partner shoud earn it. By letting us know and feel
that they are sincere and true to what they feel and say. Trust is very important in a relationship. It could get your life back and enjoy the healthy relationships you deserve. By rebuilding trust, and live a happier life. No worries. Just trust yourself as well.. ÜÜÜ
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